Posts Tagged ‘Protection’
How to tell the difference between black obsidian and black onyx
People often ask how to tell the difference between black obsidian and black onyx. That is a very good question and one that doesn’t come with a definitive answer.
Both obsidian and onyx are black stones (can be other colors as well) which contain silicon and other impurities. The main difference between obsidian and onyx is how they are formed.
Obsidian is formed when molten lava erupts from a volcano and cools quickly upon reaching land or water. As a result, obsidian does not have a crystalline structure. This volcanic glass is usually glossy and glassy and generally weighs less than onyx. It can also have a translucence to it.
Onyx, on the other hand, has a crystalline structure because it grew in the ground for a very long time. Onyx tends to have a duller finish. Another difference is that onyx can also have white, gray or black bands.
Black obsidian doesn’t have bands. Obsidian is one gem that comes in an assortment of colors and styles due to its mineral content and tiny gas bubbles that got caught inside during its quick formation. Rainbow obsidian is a example of obsidian which has an intriguing rainbow design.
After all that, you may still need a strong magnifying glass nearby.
A Typical Day Selling Crystals
Last week, a woman in her 70’s came over to where we were displaying our crystals. She expressed that her husband had become downright mean and nasty to her because she had gained weight. She said that he recently moved out of the bedroom and was saying hurtful things to her.
Rather than being supportive and encouraging her to lose weight, he resorted to ugly behavior. Hearing her words made me sad. She is a lovely lady and does not deserve this kind of treatment. Actually, no one deserves to be treated poorly.
Being unfamiliar with stones and with a hint of humor in her voice, she asked if there was a stone that would make her feel better when she was around him. “As a matter of fact, there is” I answered. At that point, she became more interested.
“The first stone you need is fire agate”, I said. “Fire Agate is a very powerful protective stone. If someone is jealous of you or wishes you ill will or makes your life miserable, fire agate removes that negative energy from your aura and sends it back to the source, making them aware of what they have done and they stop!” Without missing a beat, she says “I want it. Where is it?”
I showed her the Fire Agate tumbles and the handmade Peruvian Fire Agate pendants. When she saw the fire agate, she thought it was an attractive stone. That came as no surprise as we are indeed drawn to the stones we need. After telling her that crystals work best when placed directly on the body, she decided on the fire agate pendant. She selected 3 which appealed to her and asked me which one she should go with. I said “Would you like me to ask my pendulum? ” She answered the same way 100% of the people answer. ”Yes.”
Before introducing her to the pendulum phenomenon, I asked her to choose (in her mind) which pendant she was most drawn to and not to tell me. Then, I pulled out my copper pendulum with a clear quartz tip as she curiously watched. I went through the same routine I always do, showing her how pendulums work, letting her see my yes and my no, asking if the pendulum is clear and if I am clear. Once that is established, I ask the pendulum the specific question for each person. I told the pendulum that I needed to have an answer as to which fire agate was the highest and best for (saying the person’s name). I asked her to hand me one pendant at a time. I placed the first pendant in my left hand, palm up and had the pendulum in my right hand about 7″ above. I posed the question for all 3 pendants and received one yes, one no and one not sure. I inquired as to whether the yes was for the one she liked best. She smiled and said yes.
I also suggested that she carry black tourmaline to help remove her husband’s negative energy that was ever present around her. Then, I said “You know, sodalite is a stone that helps ease anger and it would be beneficial to your husband and ultimately you.” I asked her if her husband would be willing to carry a stone around with him. She said he wasn’t into crystals but that she would simply place the sodalite in the pocket of his pants, unbeknownst to him. We both liked that idea! She decided on the small tumbled piece as opposed to the larger raw piece of sodalite. Personally, I am partial to the natural pieces, however she made the correct decision to go with the smaller tumble (for fitting nicely and unobtrusively in a pocket).
I cut her some black cord, a nearby crystal visitor made a slip knot and she immediately put that fire agate pendant around her neck. She purchased other stones as well, including apatite, a stone helpful in losing weight.
She thanked and hugged me and left with a renewed and more empowered presence. I smiled because I knew those stones were going to work their magic and it was the best little investment she could do for herself right now.





